Every year trying to make a resolution. Each end of the year in review, how ya were finally achieved. Sometimes even non-existent. Then what's the point, make resolutions? After all, why should date 1 January? What's new at date 1 January? There is nothing new. The Moon and the Earth continues to spin on its axis, they do not know ... There is a new one, it said.
But this is my Resolution in 2012, I hope 8 out of 12 my resolution this year come through, and This is my resolution:
1. Speak Less, Reflect More
How easy it is to speak, so that I often hear. There is another that says, "Spineless Tongue". Just imagine if the tongue is reinforced, what can you speak? Thus, I am often more like way, a lot of waffle, exploratory talks, bragging talk and more. Perhaps because such simply talking, sometimes things that I didn't know I was talking about so often become mired knowledgeably, sok know all things. Well this is an opportunity for me and all of us to talk less, and permeates the things talked about more. With more and more reflection, certainly we can better understand what we are talking about. Critical reflection is not only able to show the mistakes we did, but it is not known, but it also makes us more wisdom.
2. Worry Less, Love More
What we don't worry about in this world? Salary, money in the pockets of depleting the life not budged, towards the better, the boyfriend have married, the child who is sick, and many others. Even perhaps we worry in front of resurrection actually happened. We worry if one day we had been unable to do anything anymore. We are worried about getting fired from a job, we're worried about anything, even the position of klasmen League of United Kingdom.
Worries aren’t serving anyone nor anything. Worries are expression of the Ego losing control
However we can slap on a sense of worry about it. We could have brushed it off by bringing as much as possible belief in the goodness of this life. Give love more then we could expect the concern will be reduced.
3. Hold Less, Express More
It has a lot of things are very important. It has a lot of knowledge, abundant wealth is an important element that could make someone happy. But the problem is not that simple. When so much wealth is obtained, seemed no room kosng inside. When science is so much to come by, seemed necessary to divide it. Well, it might be good for us to have a little more and give more. I remember, giving it better than to receive. More and more little we have, in fact the more we have in place that we provide. The wealth that we have no worries will be reduced if a lot of us express to others through sharing. Science is shared will be the fertilizer for the tree of life. How we actually never lack anything with a little one has.
4. Judge Less, Forgive More
Criticism and often makes us cuts judment. In the case of most criticism and unfounded though judment sebenarnyalah a warning to us. You, me and all flesh is never detached from criticism and judgment of others. Sometimes we are so gusarnya as they often provided by haphazard. I often experienced this. Sometimes I really emotional, sometimes I'm so angry, why can't they just make the criticism, but on the other hand is not capable of delivering the same or even better than what I give. I learned, the angry, Wroth, hurt because of the criticism and judgement more often hurt yourself. For it may be I need to forgive. Not to learn humility, but planets could be the case. Anger will only burn yourself. It's good I just tried to do memafkan and refeksi of what other people say to me.
Forgiveness is the first medication that must be administered after self-awareness has brought clarity to the situation.
5. Do Less, Be More
Never leave time for yourself in the past few years? Often we work in such a giatnya. Incessant pursuing things outside ourselves. In the new year is soon to come, perhaps we need to look more into that. See the side-the other side of yourself, mematut-matut yourself in the mirror (not to find how gallant or gorgeous self). I myself could hardly remember again when I spoke seriously with myself in a time that I specify. Most of my life is about how I terliaht out there. Sometimes I'm embarrassed by the fact I never thought about how much I am seen by myself
6. take time out for family and friends.
Many people wish they could spend some more time to his family and relatives. Try to have dinner with his family several times a week. The weekend? It's time having fun with the kids. Or, take a minute to meet friends after work.
7. Lose Weight.
The only way of staying in Your target destination is set how much weight will be reduced each month. Make planning. Don't be easily tempted, eat a lot these days and confused a few days later.
8. Stop For smoking
Many who fail to stop smoking last year. Do not easily give up. There is strong evidence, cigarettes cause death due to lung cancer and heart attacks. Start early to stop sucking a cigarette.
9. Enjoy life, manage stress.
Most people plead stress throughout the year. Enjoy your life, decide when it's time "me time". If you love golf, sisihkanlah time on weekends. If you can relax with a spa, make an appointment in the first week of the new year. Make this year's concerns about jobs, free money and personal problems.
10. Free of debt
You can control your personal finances. Set goals that are strictly for debt and budget spending to make the first quarter of 2012. With this, you will know how much money can be saved and spent.
11. Healthy eating and reduce alcohol
a lot of people spent new year's Eve with drinking alcohol. If planning to quit, try reduce on the first day of the year 2012. Diet can be exhausting, but eat healthy positive effect on the body of the member. Do not easily fall into old habits that ruin your body.
12. Saving
up to get rid of debt not only, the most popular new year's resolutions is to save money. Open a savings account, and set aside 30 percent of your salary a month. The end of next year, you'll have some money for a vacation or investment.
And The most Important For me in This year is " Low Profile, But High Profit" ;)
